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鈥淚鈥檝e always been a rebel,鈥� Gabor Mat茅 says in The Wisdom of Trauma, a new documentary about the acclaimed physician鈥檚 groundbreaking work in mental health. 鈥淚n communist Hungary, in grade six, my teacher wrote in my report card that, 鈥榊ou should watch it, because he incites the other students.鈥欌��

Nearly 70 years later, although far from the playground, Mat茅 is still doing exactly what his teacher warned of. He is at the forefront of conversations about the long-term effects of childhood trauma, inspiring colleagues to transform the way Western society responds to depression, anxiety, addiction, and other symptoms of deep-seated mental and emotional distress. His 2008 book, , is a seminal work on the subject.

鈥淭rauma is an overwhelming threat that you don鈥檛 know how to deal with,鈥� he explains. 鈥淥ur job, as human beings, is to learn from our suffering.鈥�

It was also in Hungary that Mat茅 had his own formative experience with trauma. 

When he was 2 months old, Nazi soldiers marched into Budapest. His Jewish grandparents were sent to Auschwitz and his father to a labor camp. His mother was left living in terror. Just before Mat茅 turned 1, she handed him to relatives who took him into hiding. For six weeks, at this age crucial for development, Mat茅 was separated from his mother鈥攁bandoned, in his infant mind鈥攁nd surrounded by caregivers who had palpable fear for their lives. 

It wasn鈥檛 until Mat茅 was in his late 30s that he began to process this trauma. As a successful Canadian physician, he was a workaholic, addicted to his patients鈥� constant needs for attention. With his beeper going off at all hours of the day, he didn鈥檛 have to think about his own life, and he felt needed. But the trauma remained, and, finally, Mat茅 began to understand that keeping the trauma buried through constant work also kept his mind closed to much of his true self and the people who loved him.

For most of the past decade, I lived and worked as a journalist in Vancouver鈥檚 Downtown Eastside, the same neighborhood where Mat茅 got his start working with drug users in the early 1990s. In The Wisdom of Trauma, he describes it as 鈥淣orth America鈥檚 most concentrated and most dramatic area of drug use, where there鈥檚 more people injecting and ingesting and inhaling more kinds of substances than anywhere else on the planet.鈥�

It鈥檚 a dense population of poverty and mental illness where IV drug use is tolerated out in the open. There, I witnessed people go to dangerous lengths to hide from their pain. I saw women sell their bodies in dirty back alleys, young men rob and steal from one another, and people shoot so much dope that they overdosed and nearly died. I also saw a community in the Downtown Eastside, as Mat茅 did when he first arrived to work at a supportive-housing project there. 鈥淚 felt totally at home, right away,鈥� he says in the film.

Of his patients, Mat茅 reports, 鈥淭hey all suffered tremendous torment as children, which also meant that their addictions were extreme. They were quite willing to sacrifice love, life, relationship, health, just for the next hit. They were that desperate to escape from reality, because reality had been so cruel to them.鈥�

Mat茅 used his work as an escape. His patients escaped by using heroin and other drugs.

鈥淭rauma fundamentally means a disconnection from self,鈥� Mat茅 says. 鈥淲hy do we get disconnected? Because it鈥檚 too painful to be ourselves.鈥� 

In the Downtown Eastside, where so many people had gathered to hide from their pain, Mat茅 helped them connect with the neighborhood鈥檚 community and reconnect with themselves.

The film, produced and directed by Zaya and Maurizio Benazzo of Science and Nonduality, includes many interactions between Mat茅 and his patients. It is remarkable to watch how quickly Mat茅 connects with people, understands where their trauma originates, and begins to help them work through it to find themselves.

In a therapy circle at Chrysalis House in Vancouver, a woman recounts being kidnapped by a taxi driver when she was 16 years old. She was held in a motel room for six months and repeatedly sold off and raped. Mat茅鈥檚 first question for her is about what steps her mother took to find her. 鈥淢y mom just thought that I had run away from home,鈥� she replies. 鈥淪he didn鈥檛 look for me.鈥�

He goes back further, and learns that, beginning when the woman was 5 years old, her father beat her violently with a belt. And again, her mother was not there for her.

鈥淲ho did you talk to?鈥� Mat茅 asks.

鈥淣obody,鈥� she replies. 

鈥淭hat鈥檚 the trauma,鈥� Mat茅 says. 鈥淏y the time you were 5 years old, you were completely alone.鈥�

Today, Mat茅 sees dislocation from self in every direction he looks, as well as its symptoms, both mental and physical.

We have a social structure that induces trauma in a lot of people. Therefore, it induces escapist, addictive behaviors.鈥�

Think video games, social media, unrestrained consumerism, compulsive eating, and the overdose crisis, which killed a record 93,000 people in 2020. People are hurting, he emphasizes. It鈥檚 a subject he discusses further in a book scheduled for publication in May 2022, The Myth of Normal: Trauma, Illness, and Healing in a Toxic Culture.

鈥淥ur schools are full of kids with learning difficulties and mental health issues that are trauma-based. But the average teacher never gets a single lecture on trauma,鈥� he says. 鈥淭he criminal justice system has no understanding or even acquaintance with the concept of trauma. In fact, they often create policies that further deepen people鈥檚 trauma.鈥�

One of the more striking scenes in the film is a visit that Fritzi Horstman, founder of the Compassion Prison Project, makes to a maximum-security facility in California. She has dozens of inmates form a large circle and, standing in the center of it, asks the men, 鈥淚f a parent or other adult in the household often pushed, grabbed, slapped, or threw something at you, step inside the circle.鈥� Almost every one of them does. 鈥淚f you often felt that no one in your family loved you, step inside the circle.鈥� Again, almost everyone moves forward.

Roughly 64% of American prisoners have experienced six or more Adverse Childhood Experiences, or ACEs, which health professionals count on a 10-point scale that quantifies a person鈥檚 trauma and, with it, their likelihood of developing ailments ranging from cancer to an addiction to opioids.

Once Horstman鈥檚 circle of prisoners is much tighter than when the exercise began, it becomes apparent that these young men鈥攎uscle-bound, tattooed, and maintaining hard stares鈥攁re victims of childhood trauma. Instead of offering help, our system confined them to cages, severing their connections to friends, family, and society as a whole.

The Wisdom of Trauma urges its audiences to ask why, collectively, we respond to trauma the way that we do in schools, hospitals, and the criminal justice system.

鈥淐hildhood trauma is key,鈥� an unnamed inmate says. 鈥淏ecause once you understand that, you know you were a child, and you didn鈥檛 have help. And if it鈥檚 about love, then why are we locking you up?鈥�