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Everette Taylor is a family man.

Except that he鈥檚 in prison and can鈥檛 see his family.

The slim, 6-foot-1-inch 45-year-old is being held at the Macomb Correctional Facility in Michigan. Over the past 23 years, he鈥檚 resided in 16 of Michigan鈥檚 30 prisons, which house about 33,000 people鈥�.

Taylor is not as well known as his daughter Breonna, who was聽聽in Louisville, Kentucky, on March 13, 2020, and whose death helped spur the historic racial justice uprisings.聽He鈥檚 one of the 2.3 million mostly faceless incarcerated souls whose treatment is a stain upon America鈥檚 promise of liberty and justice for all.

It鈥檚 not that he didn鈥檛 deserve a term in prison, but he certainly doesn鈥檛 deserve to languish there for the rest of his life. Taylor had six kids before he was 19. Young, unemployed, and Black, he was determined to support them. Busted for dealing drugs, he鈥檚 spent the majority of his adult life in prison.

On Feb. 12, 1998, Taylor was dealing drugs, and when he delivered a bag to Elijah McGee through the driver鈥檚 window of the car, McGee sped off. Taylor grabbed and retained the bag of contraband, but one of his accomplices shot at the car and killed the driver.

So, Taylor was convicted, as per Michigan law, as an 鈥渁ider and abettor,鈥� an accomplice to the crime of first-degree murder.

Because he didn鈥檛 pull the trigger, the jury reduced his term to second-degree murder, sentencing him to 25鈥�50 years in prison instead of life without parole.

Shortly after the shooting, the Grand Rapids police found drugs in the back seat of Taylor鈥檚 car鈥攎arijuana and cocaine. They booked him for drug possession with intent to sell, which carries a sentence of 20鈥�40 years. But because he was given poor legal advice, Taylor鈥檚 sentences were carried out consecutively, not concurrently, which they would have been had the drug sentence come first. So, between the two convictions, he was sentenced to 45 years minimum in prison.

This is also known among prisoners as 鈥渄eath by incarceration.鈥�

I am continually amazed by how many super-smart people are languishing in our prisons. So-called correctional facilities are essentially warehousing human beings, and many facilities are  and discouragement. Many inmates should instead be with their families and communities, working to create positive change. They should be lawyers, doctors, barbers, ministers, active fathers, hiking partners, chefs, lovers. 

Many of these men and women have been forced to face up to who they are with days, weeks, months, or even years of introspection鈥攖he kind privileged people pay good money for at meditation retreats, drug therapies, and self-help seminars.

By all accounts, Everette Taylor has been as good a father as the prison system has allowed. Five of his kids have survived with his help and good counsel鈥攂ut not his daughter Breonna, shot and killed in her own apartment by police who raided it, looking for drugs that were supposedly in another apartment.

I met Taylor through Joshua Puckett, the son of Joe Creedon, a dear friend who died of AIDS in 1991. After losing his father, Puckett came home from school one afternoon to discover that his mother and her wife had been murdered by their next-door neighbor. Traumatized, he joined a gang, and a 12-year-old girl was tragically killed in gang war crossfire.

Puckett has been in prison for 28 years. Like Taylor, he was sentenced for a crime he did not directly commit but in which he was involved as an 鈥渁ider and abettor.鈥� He has called for Taylor鈥檚 release.

Unthinkable Loss

Taylor is like many parents of color who have lost their beloved progeny to police violence in America.

Speaking to him via phone interviews, I found out that 鈥淪keeter,鈥� as his friends call him, had his own problems with police while growing up in Grand Rapids, Michigan, in the 1990s. Passed over for jobs because of his skin color, victim to the stagnant economic growth of that decade, he dealt drugs. It was the most lucrative and easy way to support his six children. 

Back then, 21-year-old Skeeter was a popular man about town in Grand Rapids. Breonna was his fourth child, born when he was just 17. She and her mother, Tamika Palmer, moved to Louisville when Breonna was 5.

Taylor has chosen to stay in the background in the years since Breonna鈥檚 murder, saying he 鈥渄idn鈥檛 want my record to detract from the situation at hand.鈥�

But in fact, his record typifies important aspects of the many stories that Breonna鈥檚 death symbolizes. Tens of thousands of Americans鈥攁 majority of them 鈥攚ere mistreated by police and  after anti-marijuana and tough-on-crime laws (co-sponsored by then Sen. Joe Biden) were passed in the 1980s and 鈥�90蝉.

People like Taylor were labeled 鈥溾�� by politicians on both sides of the proverbial political aisle. Today, although many leaders disavow such language, people like Taylor remain incarcerated鈥攁n incalculable loss to his family and community. 

鈥淵ou鈥檙e either locked [up] or dead, basically,鈥� says Taylor.

People Like Taylor Belong at Home With Family

鈥淪keeter is the glue [of the family],鈥� affirms Taylor鈥檚 mother, Janice Rostic. She explains that his nickname originated after his uncle commented, when he was a baby, 鈥淗is head looks like a mosquito!鈥� Rostic didn鈥檛 like that, but her son nevertheless came to be called 鈥淪keeter.鈥�

Taylor鈥檚 son Everette III, who is named after him, is affectionately known as 鈥淟ittle Skeeter.鈥� The 29-year-old reminisces, 鈥淓ver since I was in fourth grade, he鈥檚 reached out to me and given me good advice,鈥� adding, 鈥淓ven when I got in trouble, he鈥檚 been there for me.鈥�

Our prisons are filled with people like Taylor who have turned themselves around in various ways鈥攑eople whose insights, caring, and intelligence would be much more useful, and less expensive, on the outside than behind bars, and whose families yearn to be with them. 

Taylor was sowing his oats and, in his words, 鈥渇iguring things out鈥� in 1992, when he was only 16. His six children鈥攁ll from different mothers, in the span of only three years鈥攚ere Asia, De鈥橝ndrea, Ateaonia, Breonna, Everette III, and Shantelle. 鈥淚 was smoking so much marijuana,鈥� he explains, 鈥淚 honestly thought I was sterile.鈥�

Today, his children are the center of his life. He writes and speaks with them regularly, encouraging them to have patience and to stay in touch with each other. 鈥淚 really respect their mothers for keeping our family together, for letting me have access to them,鈥� he says. He says he鈥檚 on good terms with them all鈥攎others and kids.

鈥淒ad is the glue that keeps us together,鈥� says his 29-year-old daughter De鈥橝ndrea, who goes by Dee Dee, and who until last year lived in Houston as a social worker for Goodwill. 

Taylor鈥檚 dream is to continue to rebuild relationships with family and loved ones, to get a job, and to ultimately open a barber shop. Meanwhile, Dee Dee鈥檚 mission鈥攁s was Breonna鈥檚鈥攊s to get their father out of prison.

Recently, Dee Dee moved back to Grand Rapids with the intention of opening a halfway house for returning prisoners, including her dad.

Memories of Breonna, Family Aspirations

Like any family that loses a loved one, there鈥檚 a giant piece of the fabric missing, and everyone is trying to figure out how to stitch things back together after Breonna鈥檚 death. According to Ateaonia, her sister was 鈥渓ively, sparkly, the life of the party.鈥� Her father and surviving siblings attest to how she smiled a lot and was independent and driven to make life better for herself. 

Breonna stayed in close contact with the family, texting and FaceTiming them often. She took her brother, Everette III, on memorable tours of Grand Rapids and Louisville. Like her father, she attracted people but didn鈥檛 demand attention. She was 鈥渓aid-back,鈥� as per her father鈥檚 favorite description of her. 

According to her grandmother, Rostic, 鈥淭hese kids鈥攊ncluding Breonna鈥攁re sisters and brother. There was never any sense of half-this or half-that.鈥�

Yet there鈥檚 been no mention of these siblings in Breonna Taylor鈥檚 obituaries.

鈥淪ince we lost Breonna,鈥� Ateaonia Taylor, 28, reports, 鈥淒ad鈥檚 been calling almost every day. He鈥檚 a great father. I wish he could be home with us, meet his grandkids, be with us.鈥� Her 27-year-old sister Shantelle, who got married in September 2020, concurs, saying, 鈥淚 wish he were here to walk through these times with me.鈥�

鈥淭hank God we can have real conversations,鈥� says 29-year-old sibling Asia Tucker, grateful for the ability to communicate in spite of her father鈥檚 incarceration. 鈥淚 feel closer to my dad than to my mom. He helped me stop smoking. And when I was homeless, he gave me hope.鈥�

Taylor鈥檚 current 鈥渆arly release date鈥� is 2031, which means he will be 54 years old by the time he is free. That鈥檚 nine more years of missing out on birthdays, weddings, Christmases, and being able to hug his children and mother. 

鈥淚 wish I could hug Skeeter,鈥� says Rostic. 鈥淚 can鈥檛 imagine how it feels to be locked up and dealing with no visits because of COVID, in the middle of all this.鈥�

CORRECTION: This article was updated at 9:38 a.m. on March 21, 2022, to clarify Dee Dee Taylor’s plans for a halfway house. Read our corrections policy here.

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